You can also read my original draft below.
Most migraineurs have had to deal with the unpleasantness of
the emergency room. When prescribed
abortive and/or rescue medications fail to get rid of the migraine, many of us
wind up in our local ER’s or urgent care centers (When
Should You Go to the ER with a Migraine?).
Instead of going and getting taken care of like we expect to be, many
migraineurs face judgment from the medical staff and are often treated as
drug-seekers. Some of us may end up
going to the ER or urgent care a couple of times in one month if a migraine
episode will not ease up for more than a day or two. That does not mean that we are looking for a
high. I have failed to meet any
migraineur who enjoys how painkillers and narcotics feel. All one in that much pain is looking for is
relief.
Due to this common treatment, a lot of us choose to tough it
out at home instead of dealing with the glares, questions, and inadequate
treatment. For migraineurs like myself
who are allergic to or cannot tolerate triptans and most anti-inflammatories,
opiates are our only option. In my
experience, most doctors frown upon administering any form of opiate or
narcotic and if they do, will only give you one dose. And that is only if the
Toradol, Phenergan or Zofran for nausea, and possibly Benadryl you were given
first didn’t work at all. It is an all
too frustrating situation to be in when you are bombarded with severe pain,
nausea, and horrible photo- and phonophobia.
I can’t count how many times I have suffered in silence at
home because that was less of a burden than dealing with how I may be treated
in the ER or urgent care. When I would
go, I would be given the bare minimum and sent home still in pain. It wasn’t until I began seeing posts in
support groups about migraineurs having a treatment protocol from their
neurologist or headache specialist that I actually considered having one. My neurologist of over ten years never
mentioned having one and I figured that with one, I may get the actual care I
need. Back in December, I was in my ER
waiting room for six hours waiting to be seen.
The lights, sounds and smells were keeping my migraine at a 10 on the
pain scale. All I could do was just sit
there and cry. It was ridiculous how my
pain was not seen as emergent or important enough.
There was a light at the end of that long, dreary wait when
I was seen by a compassionate doctor who offered up some new things to
try. I typically would just get IV
toradol, phenergan, and one (or two if I’m lucky) dose of dilaudid. She added IV magnesium, Benadryl, and a
steroid (Decadron) to my traditional cocktail of medications. My migraine was raging so it took four doses
of dilaudid to bring it down to my baseline of a 2 on the pain scale. Once I got home I immediately faxed my doctor
my ER visit summary with what I was given and asked that he type up a treatment
protocol with those specific medications and doses for whenever I need to go to
the ER or urgent care. While I was at
it, I also had him type up a protocol for needing inpatient care in order to
break a status migrainous with the use of DHE infusion (which usually takes
from 2-4 days).
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I keep all of my protocols, medications, and visit history in my binder. This book of information allows me to get the treatment I need right away. |
I have a 17 year old son that suffers from chronic migraines, he has missed a great deal of school because of them. It seems like all the doctors want to do is say he is faking or just try to throw a bunch of narcotics at him. I dont want him addicted to pain killers, we recently went to the ER as he woke up from a dead sleep screaming from the pain we went to our ER and the first question out of the nurses mouth was "how many times have you been in seeking medication", I was furious then the doctor came in and gave him an IV as he had been throwing up. After a couple of hours from the benedryl they put in IV he woke up and felt a little better. They told me that he had a tension headache. I don't understand why the dr didn't even look at him no CAT scan, no examination just assume he is drug seeking and throw an IV in him. I don't want to give him drugs we have been trying diet and exercise and chiropractic what other resources do I have out there to help me figure out how to stop these headaches as I hate seeing my son suffer
ReplyDeleteHi Candis. I am sorry to hear about how your son has been treated by doctors in the ER. And I understand your concern about narcotics. Has he ever tried any of the triptan class migraine abortives? They were first introduced in the late 1980's (Imitrex was the first drug put on the market). There are several brands and types, i.e. dissolvable tablest, injection, nasal spray.
DeleteAnother option is to try to find a headache specialist in your area to take your son to. You can use this link to search for one.
https://www.mychronicmigraine.com/find-chronic-migraine-specialist
Lastly, have your son keep a headache journal/diary. You can find them online in a printable format and there are some apps that your son can put onto his smartphone if he has one. My favorite and one that I use all of the time is the Migraine Buddy app. It's available in the iTunes store and on Google Play. It is very important to keep track of triggers, whether they be environmental, synthetic, food, stress, lack of sleep, caffeine consumption, and even exercise. Narrowing down triggers really helps in the management and prevention of migraine.
I wish you and your son the best of luck. If there is anything else that I can help you with, please do not hesitate to contact me. My email address is livingmigrainebrain@gmail.com.
Take Care and Stay Well,
Jaime M. Sanders
I found a better list of certified headache doctors for you to refer to. Please use this one instead.
Deletehttps://migraineresearchfoundation.org/resources/find-a-doctor/doctors-certified-in-headache-medicine/
All the best,
Jaime
Thank you for sharing your story, it really sheds light on the importance of documentation and preparedness. You've certainly found an efficient and proper way to advocate for yourself. Do you still experience long wait times now that you are going directly to Urgent Care with your binder and avoiding the emergency room?
ReplyDeleteHi Leonardo,
DeleteI have Kaiser Permanente as my health insurance and they have their own medical centers and urgent care centers. All I have to do is call and make an appointment and I'm usually seen within 15 minutes of arriving. They also take walk-ins but I prefer having the appointment because I will be seen sooner. It is also much cheaper going to urgent care as opposed to the emergency room. My copay is $20 rather than $50.
Take Care and Stay Well,
Jaime M. Sanders
I can relate to this experience! I have struggled with migraines for quite some time myself and developed a similar protocol for when they are really bad. I haven't had to go to the ER yet thankfully, but can see how that translates as well. I appreciate your openness and willingness to share.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your story about Migraine Treatment.
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